Love is not about validation from another. Love is about recognition in one another. When one is needing validation you will hear statements such as, “Love me just the way that I am.” This speaks of a desire to feel one is ‘okay’ no matter what the condition. Conversely, when one is in recognition of another, they need no validation. They simply ‘know’ themselves so completely they are able to recognize the Oneness in the other. Our humanness is ever evolving, ever-changing. Recognition is eternal and never-changing. It is about loving, honouring, respecting, sharing and playing in the eternalness that is truly you. Seek not validation—seek recognition.