Just for today…remind yourself that your well being and happiness is not predicated on anyone else. Allow people to be who they are. Understand that those around you do not need your permission to behave any way that they wish. Your hurt and disappointment is a result of unfulfilled conditions you had placed upon them. Placing conditions on others is not unconditional love–having expectations of other is not unconditional love–judging others is not unconditional love. Allowing, accepting and loving no matter what others are doing is unconditional love. Do not allow your perceptions to cloud the truth of who we all are. We are unconditional love. Allow it. Live it. Be it.
Everything in this Universe functions through fractal energy patterns. Trees represent a pattern of logical and repetitive consciousness, as do rocks, birds, stars, me and you. Our thoughts are fractal energy as well, stretching, reaching, spiraling and bursting forth in a pattern dictated not only by our thoughts but how our thoughts make us feel. When you consider what your future holds it might bode well to retreat within Self and understand the fractal path your thoughts and emotions have taken. Be mindful that each thought carries you, moves you and carves out a reality that you either want or do not want. There are no surprises when it comes to considering the future. We are in charge of the future right now.
Just for today….remind yourself there are no conclusions. There are only moments in the Now flowing one into another that serve to dictate future Nows. Be focused upon each moment knowing it is flowing you into a greater state of peace or a greater state of uncertainty. You are in charge.