Time and time again I hear people say, “If it is meant to be it will be.” To me, this is giving your power over to fate to decide the outcome. The results you realize could not be any other way than how you had been thinking and feeling about the subject all along. End of.
There is only Now. If you are despairing something in your past—you are doing it Now. If you are worried about your future—you are doing it Now. Know that whatever you are thinking and feeling Now you are actually forging your future to open to those possibilities. When you live deliberately and consciously in the Now you are carving out best case scenarios and walking into them. There would be no surprises. There couldn’t be.
Make Now the best it can be. Keep excitedly focused on the results you prefer. Your future—is right Now. ~ Ara Parisien, International Medium & Spiritual Teacher