Spirit never ceases to amaze me! Evidence is always offered to help loved ones know there is no death—only transformation. Names and dates are what Spirit offers to acknowledge those still in physical or to identify who they are with in non-physical. I think the most amazing evidence Spirit tends to offer is when they prove they are still very much a part of everyone’s life and know exactly what is going on. For instance, in many sessions I will be given names of people who seem rather inconsequential to whomever I am reading. However, it turns out that they were just talking with the person, or emailing/texting them within days prior to the session. Spirit loves to prove they were standing right by their loved one’s side as the communication took place and that they are still very much a part of their daily lives. Amazing! It shows we are never abandoned, always cared for and forever loved.
Have you ever had a dream where your loved one who has past appears? It is more than a dream—it is a dream visitation. There are clues to help you understand the difference between a simple dream and a dream visitation. This article will bring more understanding to your experiences. Not only will it bring clarity but it will also shed light on how important you are in the grander scheme of things; how loved you are; how your love for those who have past is still reciprocated; how worthy you are, and most importantly that the love you experience in a dream visitation is available to you in physical form.
How do they happen?
When you sleep your ego consciousness is quiet and will not engage. The ego consciousness is what nudges you into dismissing events because they seem to be just so far-fetched (limitation of the ego consciousness) that it cannot and should not be believed.
Spirit can insert itself into your dream state rather easily and will allow you to see what you need to see or deliver a message that is necessary to inspire healing.
When do they happen?
The timing of a dream visitation is not predicated out of your desire or desperation. Spirit has clear view of your bigger picture and will only insert itself into your dream state at the perfect time for you. Spirit understands the fine line between wanting something so badly and needing something. It will only present itself at the most optimum time for you.
Why do they happen?
Dream visitations occur for varied reasons. They tend to deliver messages in a meaningful way to the dreamer according to their path of healing. Often a loved one will present themselves in dream state to show their peace, love and joy from their vantage point of non-physical. This allows the dreamer to know their loved ones are fine which is often enough for them to engage more fully in the art of living fully. Other dreams may have your loved one offer a message that you will understand that is vital in your overall peace and well-being. The reasons may be varied for their appearance in your dream but in essence the common thread is their unconditional love for you. That love is ever-present and being sent to you in every moment. In turn, your love for them is received and amplified. It is an ongoing relationship, eternally. Love never dies and neither does your loved one.
There have been times when a dream visitation has been far from pleasant. This causes consternation in the dreamer. Take heart, it never means your loved one is not well, is frustrated or sad or angry. They are merely acting as the mirror you need in order to see what you are holding onto physically, mentally and emotionally. For instance, if you see your mother in your dream and she is angry or sickly it is more that she is showing you your own worry and concern or deeply held resentment/bitterness that was present between you in life or your concern that you didn’t do enough for her at the end of her life. Spirit will never convey anger or frustration. If you are seeing this in your dream visitation it is your projection of your own fear and resentment onto Spirit. This happens so that the dreamer can target these areas in waking state in order to heal them. It is all so perfect!
Why have I never had a dream visitation?
So many of us long for that dream visitation and do everything in our power to conjure one. It is not because you are forgotten by your loved one. It is not because they have stopped loving you. It is because they can see your bigger picture and know the perfect time to insert themselves. Some never have them. Others wait years. Still others have them virtually right away. It is all by design and not based on your value or worth—nor is it based on how long you have suffered or how badly you want one. If I were to ask you what your bigger picture was would you be able to tell me? I didn’t think so. No one has a clear understanding of it—but Spirit does. Trust it to do right by you. It always has and it always will. Unconditional love happens to work that way. Be on the look out for other signs from loved ones during your waking states. They are always letting you know they are right by your side! I will cover more of these types of signs in a future article.
How to tell the difference between a dream and a dream visitation
A dream visitation is a higher vibration than that of a regular dream. Regular dreams may not be remembered, or they can be forgotten completely. Not so with a dream visitation. Because of the higher frequency the details are unusually vivid and will be remembered for a lifetime.
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When asking for signs from your loved one in Spirit always remember what you will receive from them will be subtle. Not because they want to keep you searching and longing. They will always use the path of least resistance to bring you the evidence you are asking for. By Universal Law of Attraction you will turn your head just at the right time and see what you need to see. Do not dismiss anything. Feathers, hummingbirds, coins can all be a ‘hello’ from your loved one. Feel your way and know you are always heard, you are always answered and you are always, always loved. ~ Ara Parisien, International Medium and Spiritual Teacher
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Just for today…remind yourself that there is more going on than what you can discern with your five senses. Life after life is real and exists in the here and now. Loved ones in non-physical will offer subtle messages from time to time to inspire you forward in joy. You aren’t imagining things. Allow yourself to be showered by their love in this way and be grateful they give evidence of their continued existence.
Just for today….be mindful of what your five senses are bringing to your attention. Spirit will inspire you to turn your head at just the right moment in order to see something that will remind you of someone who has passed. There will be scents that drift into your awareness, there will be songs you will hear. Spirit will use your five senses to remind you that your loved ones are not gone. They are still with you, still part of your life and most importantly still loving you.
